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Thanks for posting a note about this essay, which I had missed. I read it with great fascination. The few photos you have of your grandparents are so precious. Yes, it's wild to think that your paternal grandma had bound feet, isn't it? My own grandma was made to start the process of foot binding but somehow she got out of it before her bones were cracked. Sadly, I have no idea what exactly she went through as she was reticent about her past. Photography was a rare luxury even I my parents' generation, so it's been super difficult to reconstruct my family history. But reading your family lore always brings fresh inspiration to me to dig deeper even if much of my family history is unavailable in the forms of written or photographic records.

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